Here are a few ideas I picked up years ago that helped relieve me of "theocratic performance anxiety:"
The JWs assert that the Bible is a communication from God to the members of Christ's BRIDE ( the anointed).
Thus it follows, as the Watchtower teaches, that the command to preach and otherwise outperform is a task given to the ANOINTED.
I never considered myself to be "anointed," and no one ever suggested I might be. If that is true for you too, a lightbulb should be coming on by now...
The Warchtower says it is your "priviledge" to "share" the work of the anointed. There's NOTHING that compels you to do so, however!
Take a day off!
Go fishing!
or sleep late!
Let the anointed "exert themselves vigorously," you're going for the Grand Slam breakfast at Denny's!
The idea of being someone's "bride" just never appealed to me.